How bully’s work …

Written by Hansard.

Bullies are found in all organisations and at all levels. Very often they move unobserved by the mass ranks, making their themselves known only to those they seek to harm or intimidate. To everyone else many bullies project respectful and reasonable. Some are deaf and blind to the pain they cause but many more enjoy it. Some enlist others in their game to amplify the torment. We all need to vigilant and act to safeguard our colleagues. One day it could be us, in a weakened state.

'How bully’s work ...'
 
I have never known a bully
 
who documents
 
their negative behaviour
 
and actions
 
have you?

I know a bullied person
 
broken, bowed
 
who in despair
 
felt compelled to
 
keep records.

I have never know a bully
 
who keeps
 
the door open
 
while being intimidating
 
or demeaning.
 
Have you?

I know someone
 
who feared
 
the closed door,
 
the deserted corridor,
 
the terse email
 
the presence
 
of the bully.

I have never known a bully
 
who accepts
 
culpability
 
for the consequences
 
of their actions.
 
Have you?

I know a victim
 
so damaged ,
 
so let down
 
so alone
 
that they begin believe
 
they are at fault.

I have never
 
known a bully
 
to apologise
 
and change
 
their ways.
 
Have you?

And…
 
I have never known a bully
 
who admits
 
to their failings,
 
because,
 
they think this is a sign
 
of weakness.

But….
 
I can tell you,
 
because I know,
 
that the vitriol
 
a bully throws at you,
 
reveals their lack,
 
and an imagined mirror
 
reflects it all back.

So….
 
Like a phoenix
 
from the ashes
 
emerge from the darkness
 
anew.
 
Stand up to bullies,
 
re-claim YOU.

Sue Hansard, 2018

#Hansard


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